When we think of hospitality, our minds often go to restaurants, hotels, events space, but often not us hosting our friends and family at home. But at its core, hospitality is about creating a welcoming and enjoyable environment for others – and that includes our family, and often in our homes.
This last Bank Holiday weekend, I had the pleasure of hosting a large family BBQ for my birthday, and it reminded me that being hospitable to our loved ones is just as important, if not more so, than any other gathering.
Every successful event starts with good planning and ultimately “success” was deemed as ensuring everyone had a great time and went home fed, watered, tipsy and with a little entertainment to boot.
I believe that a good host always anticipates their guests’ needs, and this was no exception. Whether someone wanted a cold beer, a refreshing coke, or something a bit stronger, I wanted to make sure they had options.
The variety of food was just as important; I made sure to cater to everyone’s preferences, from classic BBQ staples like burgers and hot dogs to vegetarian options like feta salad and potato salad.
But food and drink aren’t the only things that make an event successful. With the unpredictable weather in mind, I decided to get in a gazebo. It was a small addition that made a big difference providing cover from, on this occasion, a little drizzle.
This kind of forward thinking is what hospitality is all about – thinking ahead to ensure your guests are comfortable no matter what.
On the day of the BBQ, my focus was on creating a warm, inviting atmosphere where everyone could relax and enjoy themselves.
I wanted to ensure that everyone felt included and cared for. We had games for the kids, comfortable spaces for the adults to chat, and plenty of opportunities for everyone to connect, we also moved the TV outside to enable nobody missing the anticipated LFC match at 4.30pm kick off – which became the pinacol entertainment after my annual thank you speech.
Hospitality is about more than just the physical elements of a gathering; it’s about making sure that everyone feels welcome and valued. Hosting this BBQ reminded me of the true importance of hospitality, especially within our own families.
These gatherings are not just about sharing food and drink—they’re about strengthening the bonds that tie us together. By being a thoughtful and considerate host, I was able to create an environment where those connections could flourish. By providing comfy and covered chairs for the oldies, zero percent beer/cider for the drivers, a few little gifts for the kiddies, cushions and regular checks on my two pregnant cousins, a careful eye on every possible step, extra for a few of the oldies wondering around.
It’s easy to overlook the role of hospitality when it comes to family, but this is where it starts. By showing care and attention to our loved ones, we set the standard for how we treat others in all areas of life.
As I reflect on my birthday BBQ, I’m filled with gratitude for the time spent with family and the joy of being able to host them in a way that made everyone feel welcome and appreciated, including the family tradition of a Costco cake.
Whether it was the laughter, the shared stories, or the delicious food, the day was a reminder that hospitality is about creating moments that bring people closer together.
The next time you’re planning a family gathering, keep in mind that the small details, that make a difference.
Whether it’s a grand event, a Michelin restaurant, or just a casual get-together, remember that the art of hospitality begins at home.
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